Tuesday, March 18, 2014

A Pirate Party for a Princess

So, my little princess turned five last month and we had a great party for her! She LOVES Jake and the Neverland Pirates that comes on Disney Jr (check it out if you have little ones, it's incredibly cute!) and she was Izzy, from the show, for Halloween. So it only made sense to have a pirate birthday for her this year, too!!

After the photos I'll share how this was put together for y'all!


 The kids "dug" for buried treasure.




 Shark bait.





 Eye patches and pirate hooks!

 These were for all the treasure the kids found!

 They decorated them all, too!





We also had a pinata that the kids had a lot of fun with!
1. I found the eye patches at Party City for around $3 and the hooks I actually found at a thrift store here in town! It was right after Halloween and the were about to get rid of all of them so I grabbed every last one they had for the party! (I was incredibly happy! They were a steal, too!!)
Some of these ideas I found on Pinterest. Here is a link to my Pirate Party board for you all to check out for more ideas, as well: Argh mateys!
2. The Pirate ships were very easy to make! I bought a couple of boxes of the blue jello and made it into the cups (and you HAVE to use the tumblers of the cups are way too big! I bought them at Party City for around $10.) The next day I sliced up my oranges and then put toothpick pirate flags in them!
3. For the printables I used two different sites. Catch My Party Pirates is one site I downloaded from. I used one of their templates to make my labels out of. I ended up copy and pasting them into word and then again into your PAINT program. In there you can select and area and then delete it. So I deleted the inner text and then copied it back into Microsoft word. After that I added a "text box" and typed up what I needed in a pirate font! (That was probably the hardest and most complex part of this process.)
Pirate Sales is where I found the sales for the orange ships. I sliced two lines into the top and bottom of each sale using an exacto knife and then slid in my tooth picks.
4. The rum floats were simple vanilla ice cream with the option of coke or rootbeer and the skewers were tropical fruits placed on the long sword toothpicks!
5. The treasure dig I used an old wash bin that I have and bought a bag of sand and filled it up with treasures! I used dollar store beaded necklaces, gold coins, some well wrapped candy, and other little party toys I had come across.
6. The last thing we did was to send all the kids on a real treasure hunt to find all their goody bags! They had a blast. We just sent them off in a direction... It was completely wrong at first, of course and then they had some clues that we gave them to help them along! They had a blast!

I hope you enjoyed these photos and the tips I shared with you all! As well, I hope that your pirate parties turn out to be just as much fun as mine was!! (And you if you have any questions regarding point number three please don't hesitate to ask! I'll help as best I can!!)

- Stephanie

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Soap was surprisingly gross!

Who here still washes their kid's mouths out with soap when they say a "bad word"?? I remember it happening to me once as a child... I never said another word I wasn't supposed to say again! Soap, was, and still is, surprisingly GROSS!!!

My little one just turned five last month, pictures of party decor are coming soon! :) 
But ever since then she's been severely testing the waters lately to see what she can get away with now that she's five... She's slowly learning that it's pretty much nothing! About a week after turning the year older she informed me that since she was five now she could say "cuss words". I quickly informed her of her mistaken thought, but since then she has said TWO!!!! TWO dirty, foul, awful, words that no five-year-old should know, much less say! 
The first incident we had a long discussion of why that word wasn't to be said, along with other words that she knows not to say. And today she used another word!!! A different word.... A much, much more foul word!! Ugh... 
I'm beginning to wonder if she's hearing these things at school. We watch out language around her and I have no idea where she would have heard that she could say cuss words now that she's five except school.

I pulled this little excerpt from: When Young Children Use Profanity: How to Handle Cursing and Name Calling written by Timothy Jay, Ph. D.

The ABCs of Cursing
If you have established why the child cursed, you have established the antecedentconditions (i.e., cause). Antecedent is the A in ABC. Behavior is the B in ABC. Address the behavior itself-that is, the word(s) used. Did you hear mild speech (e.g., doo-doo head) or offensive speech (e.g., shit head)? Offensive language should result in more immediate and severe consequences than milder language. Consequences usually means applying behavior modification techniques (discussed later in this article).

 
To eliminate cursing and bad language, treat each cursing episode with the ABCs. Be consistent with all children at all times. Act quickly when cursing occurs and deal directly with the child who used the bad language.

I like this, I think this could be a great start to handling a situation like this. It makes sense and maybe could stop the profane speech quickly. But... Next time there will be soap! (There better not be a next time! :D)

You can check out the rest of the article on children using profanity here: Children and Profanity

-Stephanie